Co-Workers as Friends

By Hsien-Hsien Lei on May 9 2006

Once, long ago, when I was a young public health graduate student, a professor warned me against getting too friendly with one of the administrative staff. Back then, I figured it didn’t much matter because it wasn’t as if I had any power over her. I was just a lowly grad student! But, the following year, I did gain more responsibility and it started getting a little awkward.

Kim at Emergiblog writes more about working relationships in the emergency room. She asks:

  • How close should you get to your co-workers?
  • How much of your personal life should you discuss with the people you work with?
  • At what point does information about yourself become too much information?
  • Should you actually be friends with the people you work with?

I tend to be a blabber mouth and probably share too much. But considering how much time we spend with our co-workers, it’s hard being aloof all the time and I don’t think it would endear us to anyone if we were thought of as being cold.

Kim’s got a practical take on the whole situation. How do you behave at work?

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  • By logtar
    May 10, 2006 3:04 pm

    I have wrestled with this topic serveral times. It is hard to strike a balance between professionalism and friendship. Most people cannot handle that situation at all. When I started my professional career I had a very hard time with it, to the point that I decided to not consider coworkers friends… but then little by little those are the people that you spend must of your time with so relationships develop.

  • By Hsien-Hsien Lei, PhD
    May 11, 2006 12:52 pm

    logtar: Oops, I think I deleted my own comment by mistake. I think I mentioned that a few friends of mine met through work and are now happily married so sometimes these relationships do work out. :)

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